why?

it's a reasonable question to put to someone who wants to become a relative career. it must be very reasonable because a psychologist is coming out soon to ask me why i want to be a carer.

a few reasons that have been rumbling around in my head are:-
-to support a poor innocent
-to invest my caring nature, sense of social justice
-i enjoy helping children grow
- restore pride in the family name 
- to reinvigorate myself with a challenge, to learn & grow
- i feel i have a gift for it
- i always thought i would take a teenage boy in ţo share what i have,  offer support, protect him.  
- for the challenges & rewards,  for J & M & myself

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